April 6, 2016  

Chris McDonnell, UK 

The balancing act 
of friendship

 

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chris@mcdonnell83.freeserve.co.uk

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The days that follow the great paschal feast of Easter are the seasonal days of spring in the Northern hemisphere. It is a time of change, a moving on from winter and the warming of the earth bursting with spring flowers. 

 Looking back for a moment to the recent days of the Triduum, we recall the visit of Francis on Holy Thursday to the Italian Refugee centre near Rome . It was there that he chose to wash the feet of refugees with the humility we have come to expect of him. Those picked for this Easter ritual were four Nigerian Catholics, three Eritrean Coptic women, three Muslims from Mali , Pakistan and Syria and a Hindu Indian, as well as an Italian worker from the centre. For those who have found difficulty with his teaching over this sacramental action, it proved to be a problem yet again. His movement away from the liturgical convenience and tidiness of a church sanctuary with carefully chosen men, proved to be a real challenge.

 Not only were some unwilling to accept the inclusion of women but that those whose feet were washed included a number of non-Christians, posed difficult questions. His action did indeed say much, offered an example of faith that went beyond accustomed practice and brought us up face to face with service to all, whoever they may be. In some parishes, the problem of the inclusion of women was no doubt solved by ignoring the Rite altogether, hoping that better times would come with a return to normality, their own definition of what normality means, that is.

 A church without challenge is a church that is not itself challenging others. Being comfortable in our faith is convenient enough, we can move week by week through a liturgical cycle that is familiar, a cycle that relates to our early experience of faith, but allows little growth or progress.

 How would our local parish grouping react to being attacked in a park as they celebrated the feast of Easter, attacked only because of their Christian faith? That happened in Lahore this year, with significant loss of life.

 That is why the action of Francis this Easter was so important. It did not differentiate by colour or faith, but offered an open hand of love and forgiveness to all who were willing to accept it.

 Anniversaries can be times of celebration or memorial, times of healing or the renewal of old animosities.

 In recent days, we have seen a fine example of one such occasion, the remembrance of the fateful Easter uprising in Dublin in 1916 and the celebration of nationhood. Forgiveness does not involve forgetfulness, but it does demand a willingness to live in a new way, alongside each other in recognition of our common humanity.

 There are many parts of our uneasy planet where such an example would be an ease to a new relationship.

 This year it is reported that the crowds of pilgrims visiting Rome for the Easter festival have shown a significant decrease on recent years, with the overt presence of armed militia guarding places popular with visitors. It has been that way in Bethlehem for some time when, at Christmas, pilgrims gather to celebrate the nativity. It is incongruous to celebrate such Christian feasts in the shadow of the gun. But that is where we are. There is no use arguing that it should not be so but every purpose in our trying to change circumstances so that the need should not arise.

 It doesn’t happen overnight. Change comes about through being patient, considering events and waiting for the right moment. John XXIII found one such moment in the early 60s. Others heard his voice and followed in his footsteps. Yet not everyone is of the same mind. For some the testing times of change proved to be too much and they sought stability in remembered times.

 The challenge of Francis comes from his stability within a continuity of faith, in his asking new questions at a different time.

 Other anniversaries will come later this year and, in 2017, recognition of 500 years since the Lutheran declaration in late October, 1517. One can only speculate now, but there is a feeling that if Luther’s position had been given better consideration, subsequent years of pain and intolerance might have been avoided.

Maybe in the coming months we would do well to consider how best to heal the rift in Christendom. Washing the stranger’s feet is not a bad start.

 

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