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From Where I Sit Judith Lynch (Melbourne)
April 21, 2012
CLOSED DOORSTwo
thousand years ago Jesus’ frightened disciples closed the doors while they
heatedly discussed the fantastically unbelievable story of Jesus’
resurrection. There’s nothing new about closed doors – teenagers even stick
“Do Not Enter” notes on theirs. Australian politicians constantly stress
about the numbers of illegal refugees knocking on our nation’s firmly shut
door. Some doors never get opened. I
don’t remember ever seeing my grandfather’s front door open. Everyone went
down the side path and in the back door.
Experiences,
all kinds of experiences, are a bit like doors. We can open up our lives and
imaginations to what is happening,
or we can lock disturbing people and occasions behind the closed doors of our
memory. If I had been in Jerusalem during the heady days of Jesus’ popularity,
then seen him executed by the ruling authorities, I’m not sure that I
would have believed the stories circulating about him being back and in physical
contact with his followers. I’d probably have filed it away as a very
disturbing experience and got on with life.
That’s
what many men who fought in the wars last century did. They came home and closed
the doors of their minds and hearts on the horrors and inhumanity of war. Year
by year Anzac Day reminds us of the sheer futility of war as a way to solve
conflict. The ritual, the media coverage, the way we respond in spite of our
feelings about such a celebration, has the power to open us out to prayer.
As
we age we have the life experience and time to become more reflective. Opening
the door on the story of one’s life is not necessarily a dry run of
life-defining events for a “This Is Your Life” experience.
Much of the material that surfaces can seem insignificant, just snapshots
of moments locked away in our memory. They surface because they need to get out
and we need to listen to the story they can tell us.
The
sound of a crow always takes me straight back my teaching days at Santa Teresa,
an Aboriginal settlement outside Alice Springs. It was a difficult posting for
me and for years whenever that cawing bird activated my memory of a dry,
inhospitable landscape, I told it to go away. Eventually I let myself re-visit
that time and recognised that even though the landscape was still very alien to
me it had a beauty that had been closed to me because I refused to recognise it.
There are some who would argue that mulling over the past is not only time wasted but it is somehow selfish. They consider it unhealthy to revisit experiences or occasions that are in the past. Exploring personal stories has the power to bring understanding, healing and wisdom to something that we had thought was over and done with. It might be painful, it will probably be enlightening. It might be so personal and private that you never speak of it to another. But if we open the doors into our life experiences, if we invite God into them, then our stories turn into prayer.