March 7, 2013       Daniel Daring       Daniel's previous reflections

Coming Home - Fourth Sunday of Lent
Joshua 5:9, 10-12; 2 Corinthians 5:17-21; Luke 15:1-3, 11-32

 

He was sitting in a train on his way back home. It was spring time, the month of May, with flowers blooming and birds announcing the victory over winter. Two months were left to the end of the school year, but James was not going to graduate. He was kicked out from his school for drinking and having a fight with one of his teachers. How was he going to break this news to his parents? He was already anticipating the anger of his father, and he was not sure about the reaction of his mother. Reflecting upon his life now, while being somber, he had to acknowledge a major defeat. Without a good job, he was nowhere in life, and he just squandered a great chance of having a good profession.  

Rich in mercy  

I think you are familiar with this painting of Rembrandt, The return of the Prodigal Son. We see an old man embracing his son and three figures to the right observing the scene. We can easily guess that these three men are the Pharisees and the teachers of the law who complained that Jesus welcomed sinners and ate with them (Luke 15:2). The shabby clothes of the son speak about the ordeal of his experience; the gentle face of the old man and his embrace speak about gentleness and compassion of God. But it is the hands, placed at the shoulders of the son that captures the attention: one strong and muscular, the other soft and tender.

The Bible has two expressions that describe the English word, mercy. The first one is hesed. It stands for kindness/goodness that is rooted in a commitment to a relationship. God committed himself to a relationship with His people Israel, and nothing could break that commitment: no betrayal, no sin. Even if the people of God had gone astray and committed abominable things, God – bound by His own word – could not break that relationship. The Psalmist beseeches the Lord for mercy relying on God’s faithfulness to His own commitment: “For the sake of your name, O Lord, forgive my iniquity, though it is great” (Psalm 25:11). And the prophet Ezekiel makes it clear that it is for His Holy Name that God forgives and restores his people, not because of what Israel did (Ezekiel 36:22). This dimension of mercy can be viewed as strong and muscular.

The second word that describes mercy is rahªmim. It is rooted in the word rehem – womb. It describes the love of a mother for her children. It connotes all those feelings that we tend to associate with our mothers: kindness, gentleness, patience and understanding. It is the assurance of the unbreakable love that absolutely nothing can undermine. My mother once told me: “No matter what you will do, you will always be my son.” And the Bible places these words on the lips of God: “Can a mother forget the baby at her breast and have no compassion on the child she has borne? Though she may forget, I will not forget you! See, I have engraved you on the palms of my hands” (Isaiah 49:15-16). These two aspects of mercy – masculine and feminine – may help us understand how God loves us and is concerned with our lives. “But because of his great love for us, God, who is rich in mercy, made us alive with Christ even when we were dead in transgressions – it is by grace you have been saved” (Ephesians 2:4-5).  

Filled with compassion  

 Unknown to many is the picture of Frank Wesley, an Indian artist, The Prodigal Son. In this painting, we do not see spectators. We see a half naked son hiding himself in the arms of the father, so ashamed that he does not even dare to look at his father’s face. The face of the father is hidden in his embrace of the son. His forehead touches the arm of the son, his right hand strongly holds the son’s head, and the embrace of his left hand brings the son closer to him. The son seems to be falling. He places his right hand on the right arm of the father. We can sense a deep tragedy of a broken dream, a broken life. “But while he was still a long way off, his father saw him and was filled with compassion for him; he ran to his son, threw his arms around him and kissed him” (Luke 15:20).

The painting conveys the tragedy of sinful life. Sin robs us of our dignity. We are naked. It makes us ashamed to look into the eyes of others. It leads to destruction; we barely have energy to walk. But the painting also conveys the Good News about God’s mercy. Looking at the tragedy that has overtaken our lives, seeing the consequences of our choices, God is so moved with compassion that he runs to us in order to console, sustain and lift us up. The Psalmist correctly says that where God’s compassion is, there is life. “Let your compassion come to me that I may live” (Psalm 119:77).  

Conclusion – Return Home  

Only those who failed in life know how much they need mercy. They long to know that they are still worthy, that they have their dignity and that life can still begin anew. We can be rejected by our own “brothers” (Luke 15:25-28) – people who consider themselves righteous. But, the parable told by Jesus assures us that God is waiting for us. Let me end this reflection with the song from HillSong:  

Before the world began, you were on His mind

And every tear you cry is precious in His eyes (. . .);  

Nothing you can do could make Him love you more

And nothing that you’ve done could make Him close the door (. . .);  

Come to the Father, though your gift is small

Broken hearts, broken lives, He will take them all.

The power of the Word, the power of His blood

Everything was done so you would come.

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